Gemma Laidler bravely shares footage of her domestic abuse to raise awareness and encourage others to seek help from support services.
Newcastle: Gemma Laidler has shared shocking footage of domestic abuse she endured. This crime often goes unseen, but Gemma wants to show the harsh reality.
Gemma revealed her story after Ryan Grundy, her partner, was jailed for his violent behavior. She shared the footage to help others understand what domestic abuse looks like.
In the videos, you can see Grundy hitting, headbutting, and even strangling Gemma. She had installed CCTV to watch her dogs, not knowing it would capture her suffering.
Gemma met Grundy in 2021. He had a troubled past with drugs and mental health. She wanted to help him, but things took a dark turn after they moved in together.
Grundy’s behavior changed quickly. He used his addiction to control Gemma, making her feel trapped. The violence escalated over time, with multiple attacks reported.
On one occasion, Gemma messaged a neighbor for help while Grundy threatened himself with a knife. This led to his arrest and later court proceedings.
Gemma shared that even police officers were shocked by the footage. She hopes her story will encourage others in similar situations to seek help.
She received support from local services like PROPS and Newcastle Women’s Aid. Gemma urges anyone facing abuse to reach out for help.
